Bringing your aging parents into your home to live out their final years can be both a blessing and a curse. While you love having them around, the constantly increasing level of care they require can become overwhelming if you aren’t prepared. You must make sure that your parents will have everything they need to live comfortably. By the same token, you have to learn to care for yourself in the process so you can be there when they need you the most.
Here are some things you should keep in mind while taking care of your aging parents at home:
It’s Not Always Easy
It’s not always going to be easy to see your aging parents struggle through activities that in the past were fairly easy for them. If they have Alzheimer’s or dementia, it can be extremely difficult to care for them as the condition progresses. Make sure you have a support system for yourself. People who you can talk to that will understand what you’re going through.
It Costs Both Time and Money
Taking care of your aging parents will cost both time and money, but in the end, you will know they were taken care of properly and had everything they needed for as long as they remained in your home. The additional costs may involve minor renovations to your home that include handrails in the bathroom, a hospital bed, wheelchair ramps, and higher toilets that make it easier for them to use the restroom.
Patience Is A Virtue
As your parents get older, they may begin to move more slowly or forget what they are doing. Depending on the state of the health, they may begin to lose strength. Learn to be a guiding hand and reassure them that things are going to be okay.
Make a schedule for everything ranging from when they take their medication to making time for exercise. When you have a busy schedule, it’s easy to make sure everything gets done if you follow a routine. This will ensure that your parents get their medications when they need them as well as a few minutes of activity each day for every member of the family.
Following these tips for taking care of your elderly parents and learning what will work best for you and your family will make having your aging parents living in your home go much smoother and will allow you to enjoy the time you spend with them.
Newport Home Care, based in Orange County, California is dedicated to serve senior citizens and take care of their well-being. We provide the best home care solutions in the Orange County and Greater Los Angeles region. We are compassionate towards our clients and serve them with integrity and dignity. We serve patients with– diabetes, arthritis, osteoporosis, lupus, post surgery recovery, parkinson’s, Alzheimer and dementia. All of our staff or “caregivers”, are certified personal care assistants. We ensure only the best quality service to our clients.